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| Cathy McPhillips, Social Media, Digital Web Consultant, Media Planner |
In October 1999, I made a
decision to leave a job I loved, big accounts and fun clients. I left an
advertising agency to stay home with our then one-year old son. After dealing
with some health issues in his first year of his life, we made a hard, but
obvious decision for me to stay home with him. I cried – selfishly for the job
that I adored, for the friends that I was leaving, for the hustle and bustle on
which I thrived.
Almost instantly, his health
improved, leaving me happy but ready to take on more. With over five years’
experience in media planning and buying, I was actually in a great
position to land some clients as a consultant handling their media. A home
office was immediately set up in a spare bedroom, following all of the experts’
advice: desk, chair, computer, a door for this dedicated workspace. For 12
years, I have worked consistently with one full-time restaurant client at a
time, but have also taken on side projects and accounts as opportunities arise
and time permits.
Have there been downsides
over the years? Of course. My goal of being an executive at an ad agency or
restaurant company hasn’t been achieved. I never fully shut down for the day. I
have days where I feel like an inadequate parent and spouse or unfocused
employee trying to do way too much in a day.
Fortunately, the good has
overwhelmingly outweighed the bad. I was able to walk my kids to and from
school virtually every day in grade school. I volunteered as often as I could
in the kids’ classrooms. We eat dinner at home together as a family almost
every night. As long as my work doesn't suffer and is completed on
time, my clients are happy.
It is certainly not for
everyone, but if you are considering it, here are some words of wisdom I’ve
collected on my consulting journey:
-Develop, maintain and nurture your business and personal
relationships. Social networking makes this so easy. Get on LinkedIn and
congratulate your connections on a promotion or job change. Follow them on
Twitter and share articles, blog posts and news that you think they would
enjoy. Nurturing doesn't have to be self-serving.
-Meet peers in the
industry for coffee, even if you are perfectly content in your job and not
considering a change. It is career development and idea sharing, and if nothing
else it is 30 minutes for you to step away and go back to work refreshed.
-Are you in an industry
that is conducive for telecommuting? I’m very fortunate to have a job where I
am on the phone with reps, on my computer on social networks, or spending time
on my laptop in Excel. I am very autonomous in my role.
-Do you have the
discipline to be in your home without falling prey to the many distractions? My
TV doesn't go on until after dinner every day. My office is a room I
love. Build an environment and set some rules.
-Know that you are in
control. Every client relationship isn’t meant to be. Know when it is time to
stick with it, or graciously move on. Embrace the clients that challenge you
and provide a great working relationship.
-Mold your passion. I love
media, but as media has evolved in 12 years, so has my role with each client.
Every new client has been an exciting change with an opportunity for me to
shape and grow my craft, which keeps me engaged and passionate.
I recently made a career
change in January, starting a contract with a new client after ending a
contract with an amazing client. The decision was hard, but the time was right.
In the words of Lynyrd Skynyrd, “Be something you love and understand” (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8mal4BUieno).
I am excited for new projects, new relationships, and a life re-balance.
To learn more about Cathy,
follow her on Twitter at @cmcphillips.






